It's About Timing, Again?

From Sex and the City, Season 3, 08
"Suddenly my life was all about timing. All the right things said at all the wrong times.
My past coming back way too fast. And my future taking way too long to come home."

I could wait 4 years for a "sorry", and I could wait 2 years for a reason for someone's "hate".
I could be patient with something I do seriously care, and I always just hasten it off when I do not.

Why not with this case?

He is everything perfect but not here at the right time.
But when it is the right time, will he still be here?